Experts name 4 things a smart woman should hide from her partner

Someone once decided that in an ideal relationship, partners should not have secrets from each other. Psychologists are sure that this is not the case.

So that the relationship is not overshadowed by unnecessary nuances, some things should be kept secret from your partner.

Nobody calls on women to lie, lying is completely unacceptable, but there are things that are better kept silent without lying. It is not necessary for a man to know about them. This is for their own peace of mind and balance.

1. Treason

Let's omit the moral side of the question, and if this has happened, then your companion is better off not knowing anything about it. Confessions of perfect adultery will significantly undermine men's self-esteem, ruin relationships and, with a high probability, will generally become the last straw in them.

2. Secrets and secrets of your appearance

Not all are born beauties. Yes, and beauties have their flaws, which they prefer to hide from others. If it is possible to hide them after you start living together, it is better to continue to do so.

Let the man only see the end result of your efforts. He doesn't need to know that annoying hair is growing in the wrong place.

It is also better not to inform the man that you have previously done liposuction or rhinoplasty. Let him be proud that he got a natural beauty.

3. Income

Nobody calls to spend your salary only on yourself, your beloved. But it is not necessary for a man to know the exact size of your salary and bonus. If your sums turn out to be more than his income, this will cause a certain sense of his own inferiority in the man.

If on the contrary, you can get into a dependent position. It is better if the man thinks that the incomes of each in a pair are approximately comparable.

4. Your past relationships

In general terms, your spouse should be aware of your past. But only in general terms.Details, nuances, the essence of quarrels and the reasons for parting with former partners he does not need to know. Then the ghosts of the past will never stand between you in full growth.