This is the end of the fairy tale: types of couples who will not be able to stay together for long
We are all very different, therefore, in a relationship with a soul mate, we have to look for compromises so that life together is a joy.
However, sometimes conflicts are so insoluble that sometimes it seems that it is better to leave, and not torment yourself.
Let's identify 5 types of couples who often visit a psychologist. Is it possible to solve the problems or is it better to part?
Silent
Silent people are those people who hide in themselves, accumulate grievances and get upset when the partner himself does not know what is “wrong”. Dissatisfaction, anger and dissatisfaction tend to accumulate, as a result - a break in relations.
Silent people are not bad people, and more often than not they are silent because they do not want to ruin everything. But the partner is not a psychic, he cannot guess about the problems.
People without borders
Each person should have personal space, time for themselves. If this is not the case, the relationship is doomed. If you want to build a long-term relationship, you need to learn to say "No", and build boundaries with your partner.
Do not be afraid to speak frankly with your partner (dialogue is the way to development) and learn to refuse if you do not like something.
If a partner wants to be alone or to meet friends, this does not mean that he does not love you, it is just that everyone needs personal space.
Forever quarreling
There is no need to guess here - if partners often quarrel, then this is a direct path to parting. Perhaps people were attracted to sort out their childhood traumas and draw conclusions about themselves. Heal and enter into other relationships more consciously.
If partners often quarrel, they have two options: either work through the problems and maintain the relationship, or separate. The main thing is not to step on the same rake in the next relationship.
No shared values
If a couple has common values, for example, family values: both partners think about having children, want the house to be filled with children's laughter and warmth, then they will definitely be able to overcome all obstacles on the way and be together.
But if one likes to stay up late at the bar, while the other prefers poetry evenings, conflicts are inevitable. At first, people can be attracted by passion (opposites attract), but later they disperse, because are in different worlds and at different levels of development.