Emotion is more expensive: types of toxic people to avoid
Do you often meet people in whose company you start to feel bad? After communicating with them, you may feel a breakdown - it seems that you have "drunk" all the energy from you.
We will consider in the article the most common types of toxic people - if possible, it is better to minimize communication with them, your condition is more expensive.
Victim
This person is always depressed. He never seems to have the energy to put his life in order. It is not only he who suffers - those around him also become drawn into his depressive "cloud".
A victim of all his failures blames anyone, but not himself, and instead of normal communication, he communicates with the methods of passive aggression.
Rescuer
Rescuers are people who are always ready to do good, and they themselves impose it! They always know the best, give out wise advice and are ready to come up with many options for solving your problems.
But isn't it great to have a free personal 24/7 psychologist ?! The trap is that the rescuer sees all the victims. Over time, you may feel that you are no longer able to solve your problems on your own. Why, when there is a lifeguard?
Prisoner
This person is always under someone. What does it mean? He expects that everything will be decided for him, that decisions will be made. And if you ask him something, he doesn't know anything.
The toxicity is that you have to take responsibility not only for yourself, but also for the other. All this takes time and energy.
Judge
People called judges are always ready to condemn and devalue the plans and actions of others. They always know "what's best" and are ready to voice it. Of course, this is not done with a good purpose, but in order to assert itself.
In the depths of the soul of such people, self-doubt is hidden. No one is immune from mistakes - they learn from them, but the judge, it seems, does not know about it ...