Mistakes that attract negative men to you
Dreaming of a handsome prince, but only scoundrels come across? Perhaps it's all about incorrect settings. How we perceive ourselves is translated into the world.
If you think of yourself in a bad way and subconsciously think that you are not worthy of a good man, then all this will manifest itself in your reality.
Let go of these negative attitudes and your life will change.
"I can't give anything to others"
If you are not sure of your self-sufficiency, and constantly cling to others, then how will a self-sufficient man appear in your life? "Like attracts like" - this rule works flawlessly.
If you consider yourself a developed, self-sufficient person, then the same man will be attracted to you. To raise your self-esteem, you can sign up for dances, English courses, an online school - in general, do what can improve your skill.
"Others define my self-esteem"
If in past toxic relationships you were constantly belittled and not considered anything, this does not mean that you are so bad. An unworthy person painted such a picture of you about you in order to instill uncertainty.
All people are different - if, for example, one was annoyed by your excessive concern, it does not mean that it will annoy others as well. Do what you think is necessary, you do not need to be guided by the single assessments of others. However, if a lot of people tell you that you are a bore, it is already worth working with this.
"A person can be changed"
Do you still think so? Adults cannot radically change, but they are quite capable of wearing a mask and doing things that they have not been characteristic of for some time. A person is able to change when he himself decides, if it is imposed from the outside - no.
"I don't deserve the best"
During adolescence, the most important changes in a person's life take place.A teenager is looking for himself, he is interested in many things, and at this moment he may feel “not like everyone else”, which will undermine his self-esteem. “Since I’m not like that, then I’m bad,” the teenager thinks.
What does this lead to? A person begins to think that he is worse than others, different, and not worthy of the best. Those around us are our mirror, if we treat ourselves with dislike and disrespect, then others will treat ourselves that way.