5 years of wedding: tradition and celebration

Each year of married life is a kind of stage. Every year, relationships can become stronger and deeper, or, conversely, lose their relevance and divorce people. But now is not about that. A five year wedding anniversary is a small anniversary. But how to celebrate it in an original way and what to present? We will now tell you about these secrets.

The fifth anniversary of living together is called wooden wedding... This material is much stronger than paper or linen. He hints at the strength of the relationship and the solidity of the marriage. The couple went through the stage of growth and formation together and have already managed to acquire the first "fruits" (children).

This is the time not only for summing up intermediate results, but also for making plans for the future. The spouses have already managed to test each other in various situations, and now complete trust is based not only on feelings, but also on concrete deeds.

A period of five years is not such a long period of time. But this is a certain milestone at which it is already possible to summarize intermediate results. The main achievements will be the following points.

• Birth of children. During this period, many families have already managed to acquire one or two children. In the classical sense, the family becomes complete. The spouses have already overcome all the difficulties associated with caring for newborns and understand their responsibility for their future.
• Own apartment. Young families often start living together in a parental or rented apartment. By this point, many are already trying to get their own housing.The arrangement of everyday life and the first joint repairs are also important points.
• Subdued passions. The first euphoria and surge of hormones have already been left behind. They are replaced by mutual respect and understanding. These are deeper feelings that are a great foundation for a long, happy life together.

• No disagreement. Two persons, entering into marriage, invariably go through a period of "grinding". Each has its own principles and concepts. Living together, you invariably have to find compromises. In some families, this moment goes smoothly, while in others, you have to sharply infringe on their interests in favor of another. By the age of five, this process is already completed and the moment of family idyll comes.
• Distribution of duties. There is a classic scheme when the wife takes care of the comfort and home, and the husband is the breadwinner. But each family is individual and there are no clear rules here. After the spouses have lived together for 5 years, all responsibilities have already been clearly assigned and this is not a reason for disagreement.
• Psychological stability. The moment of getting used to each other is invariably associated with emotional instability and stress. During this period, the couple had already managed to get used to each other's peculiarities.
• Shared goals. Living under one roof, the couple not only gets used to each other, but also begins to make joint plans. Holidays with the whole family, distribution of the general budget for serious purchases and other joint activities are becoming an integral part of life.

Psychologists believe that this is a debriefing period. If a couple initially developed a good respectful attitude towards each other, then this only strengthens over the years. And vice versa, if it was not possible to find compromises at the initial stages of life, then by the age of 5 there may be an imbalance. It becomes more and more difficult for a spouse to live together, as everyone insists on his own. Scandals and quarrels are inevitable here.

Each wedding anniversary has its own symbol. In this case, it is a tree. This choice is not accidental. Let's analyze what it means in detail.

• Good root system. These are the families of the spouses who became one family 5 years ago. But relationships are not built overnight. Now they have united and created a solid foundation that will help the young family feel confident in any "storm" and "frost".
• Fruit. These are, of course, children. A young tree begins to bear fruit at the age of 5. This allegory applies to the family as well. In order to get a good harvest, children need to be "planted", they must be looked after and protected from troubles.
• Crown. A young sprout does not yet have its own gorgeous foliage. It seems that the tree is almost bare. So is the family. Not every young family has the opportunity to immediately acquire everything they need. By the age of five, many have their own homes, a well-equipped life and a stable job.
• Youth. Despite the fact that the tree is already quite mature, it is still very young. In addition, one small spark can destroy it to the ground. Therefore, it is worthwhile to take care of family values ​​and take care of loved ones.

By attaching great importance to each family date, you strengthen the relationship and show that marriage is important and valuable to you. This can be expressed in words, but joint symbolic rituals will give a positive charge of emotions and inspiration for future exploits.

It does not matter where you do it - whether it will be your own country house, cottage or city courtyard. Prepare for this event in advance. Do not dig an existing tree in a nearby forest.Get it from a specialist market or nursery. It will be more correct. It should be borne in mind that not only the seedling itself will be symbolic, but also its variety. Agree in advance with your spouse on the tree that most accurately reflects your relationship:

• fruit (apple, plum, cherry) - procreation, the appearance of children;
• maple - wealth;
• oak - stability;
• acacia - reliability;
• iva — devotion;
• juniper - longevity;
• pine - virtue, mercy;
• birch - romance, purity;
• alder - trust;
• citruses, palms - search for new sensations.

Teamwork is important here. Distribute responsibilities. For example, the husband can make a beautiful frame for a joint photo, and the wife can paint or varnish it. This symbol will remind you that everything can be achieved together.

Do not shift all the responsibilities of preparing it to your spouse. Do it together. If a man is not good at cooking, then he can easily fulfill the role of an apprentice. After all, chopping vegetables or chopping meat is not such a difficult task.

Do not forget about your main value - children. They are an integral part of the family, so it is wrong to leave them unattended. Give them interesting gifts. These can be wooden toys (car models, construction kits, children's dishes).

Like any holiday, 5 years of marriage requires themed gifts. The name itself dictates their focus. But I want to be original too. If the wedding is made of wood, this does not mean that presentations should be made only of this material. Let's look at specific cases.

Since this is a joint holiday, every participant should receive gifts.

• Barrel. Expensive elite alcohol in such attire will be a real surprise. A purely masculine gift, which he will certainly want to grab in front of friends and relatives. In addition, it may well come in handy at a family celebration.
• Pipe or cigarette case. It's great if your spouse doesn't have this bad habit. But statistics show that most men continue to smoke. Such an accessory is able to emphasize the status of its owner. And the pipe makes any man special.
• Board game. It should be a good gift option, not a plastic toy from a nearby supermarket. Cozy family evenings can be spent in a calm and interesting activity, and not just watching TV, as is customary today in most families.

• Recreation. If it is not possible to organize a full-fledged tour, then you can limit yourself to a certificate for a relaxing massage. Depending on your hobbies, it will also be appropriate to give a ticket to a concert of your favorite band, a football match, or simply arrange in advance for his friends for a fishing (hunting) trip.
• Tool. A cozy home requires constant attention. Either the shelf broke, or the chair leg wobbled. A good professional tool is indispensable here. Of course, you can use what you got from your grandfather. But getting your own little case with sparkling keys and screwdrivers is much nicer.
• Rocking chair. It is not necessary to place it in a city apartment. Although if the area and style of the interior allow, then why not. She will feel more comfortable in the country. Imagine how pleasant it is to sit in it with a glass of mulled wine on a warm evening. By the way, this can be an option for a wife's gift, or you decide to purchase a set of two such items.

The fair half cannot be ignored either. The gift for her is also of great importance and should symbolize your love and care.

• Jewelry. They do not lose their relevance and can be presented for absolutely any occasion.If you want to emphasize the symbolism of the holiday, then look for products by wood craftsmen. Original handmade beads or bracelet will be a great alternative to gold jewelry.
• Casket. Girls love to keep their treasures (jewelry, cosmetics and other trifles) in beautiful boxes. So what is not a reason to give her a wooden box for this holiday? It can show off a carving with wishes or a romantic drawing. Also interesting are products with stones, rhinestones and other decorative elements.
• Portrait. Whether it will be a family portrait or an individual portrait depends on your desire. See a wood or burner expert. This design option will be both practical and original. In the case of the image of a couple on it, he will emphasize the solidity and strength of the relationship.
• Desire fulfillment. The husband, like no one else, knows his wife and what she dreams of. Maybe it's a day at the spa or professional expensive household appliances, or maybe she has been looking at a beautiful dress in one of the boutiques for a long time. A wooden wedding is the right time to make your dreams come true.

It is not always possible to find the original version of the gift, then the presents tested over the years will come to the rescue. You just have to choose one of these options. These gifts can be presented by both friends and relatives and spouses to each other.

• Set of dishes. She is always needed in the family. After all, those sets that were presented for the wedding could have already broken or become unusable. In the meantime, new members appeared in the family. If you want to be original, then present a wooden set. From this, even small children will be happy to eat semolina porridge.
• Furniture. If you closely communicate with the "newborn" family and know all the common friends, then you can unite and make one good expensive gift. You know that for the second year they have been dreaming of a beautiful dining table or other piece of furniture, but they cannot afford to buy it yet. So give them a nice and very useful gift.
• Decorative items. All kinds of vases and figurines made of wood on this anniversary will come in handy. Just when choosing them, do not forget to take into account the style of the interior. The thing should be perfect for him.
• Money. No matter how trite it may be, they are always needed. And if you doubt your ability to choose a creative gift, then a beautiful envelope with a couple of rustling bills has never been superfluous.
• Certificate for master classes. It is good if you consider the interests of both spouses. But you can also give something completely unexpected. For example, a horse ride, a finger painting lesson, a master class in a pottery workshop.

• PHOTOSESSION. Pleasant moments of life should remain not only in our memory, but also in photographs. Look for themed photo shoots in advance. They can be both romantic, and with dressing up or an original plot.
• If the family is not going to celebrate this day, then an option for a gift from friends might be party organized by youwhich they simply cannot refuse. Going to the celebration by invitation, do not forget about the gift.
• Photo albums. Modern gadgets are increasingly replacing ordinary paper photos. As a surprise, you can pre-print the couple's family photos and insert them into a beautiful photo album. It's so nice to watch the happy moments of life with children and relatives.
• Paintings. Don't feel like they're hopelessly out of date. Today, the so-called modular paintings are at the peak of popularity, when the image is divided into several parts and framed in different frames. It can also be images of the same direction. Think in advance for which room you are purchasing them. The plot will also depend on this.
• Figurines. It can be as small funny figures with funny inscriptions, and objects of high art.They can carry not only aesthetic benefits, but also practical ones. For example, it can be a figurine designed for keys or rings.
• Cheerful cartoon. Order such a gift from the master. To do this, you need a photograph of the couple with which he will draw. You can also build it yourself from photographs and finished elements.
• Houseplants. Since the wedding is wooden, it would be more appropriate to give a tree, but only a small one. You will certainly find a suitable option in florist shops. This can be citrus, bonsai, or mini palm.

The original present will be remembered for a long time by all the participants of the holiday. Therefore, do not be afraid to show your imagination and give unforgettable emotions.

• Rolling pin. The stereotypical image of an overweight woman with a rolling pin meeting her husband on a spree is a classic. But the comicality of the situation will be given by the original inscription, for example, this: "Even a good relationship requires clarification."
• Firewood. It will be very unexpected. If the house or apartment has a fireplace, then they can become a decorative decoration (or be used for its intended purpose). And if not, then you can beat the present in your own way. To say that winter promises to be cold, but there is no hope for housing and communal services, or your own original version.
• Rings. Only not gold, but wooden. They must be paired. The inscriptions can be either funny or quite serious, with a deep meaning. Choose the most appropriate option depending on the nature of the couple and your relationship.

• Love is chewing gum. Since childhood, we all remember these touching pictures that "love is ... holding her hand" or "when you prefer it over a car." And so on. Present a whole block of these gum. They will remind you of the romance of the first meetings. And if the family has children, then it is not yet known who will be more happy with the surprise.
• Souvenirs with inscriptions. It will be much more pleasant if they are made to order. Only the names of the spouses can be displayed on them or a full-fledged wish can be written. If the souvenir is intended for home (for example, a board on the wall for keys), then the inscription may be about a family hearth or have a funny subtext.
• An original collage or panel. It is not difficult to make it. It is enough to show imagination and make a little effort. Cut out photos of the couple and arrange them like a comic strip or add funny illustrations. You can also make a panel on which to place items - gifts with original inscriptions.

It can be:

1. cognac - to normalize blood pressure;
2. paper napkins - for tears of joy;
3. chocolate - for sweet moments, etc.

• Sweets. If you are a culinary master, then you yourself can bake a delicious cake and write wishes on it. If not, then contact the pastry shop. You just have to choose the option of gingerbread and a congratulatory inscription.

It is important to prepare for the celebration in advance. This will help you avoid unnecessary fuss on your wedding anniversary day. In addition, some points require preparation: purchasing groceries, booking a table in a restaurant, etc.

• Choosing a place. It will be ideal if you manage to spend this day in nature. What could be more symbolic - a wooden wedding among the trees! But if the weather or the season does not allow, then it is quite possible to use the traditional options: a restaurant, a summer house, an apartment.
• Registration. In a restaurant or cafe, this will be more difficult. You are not going to rent it in full, as you did for the wedding itself. At home, everything is limited only by your imagination. The most suitable option is the rustic style. Bundles of firewood, embroidered towels and napkins, hanging bunches of onions and herbs - all this will remind you of the village theme. You can arrange only a separate area in a similar style, where you can take memorable photos.
• Celebration scenarios. If you are not sure that you can do it yourself, then contact the professionals. They will create fun contests and build a logical celebration scenario. But you can do without them. Some guests will be happy to replace the best toastmaster themselves. Talk to them about entertainment ideas ahead of time to make it the most wonderful gift.

• Holiday menu. Do not try to surprise guests with exquisite exotic dishes, especially if you have decorated the interior in a rustic style. Traditional Russian dishes are better suited here: potatoes, herring, dumplings and borscht. They can be decorated taking into account the modern culinary style of serving dishes.
• Celebration options for two. It is not necessary to gather a large company if you and the two are very good and comfortable. Have a romantic dinner or travel. It will be an unforgettable time that will energize you and remind you of how great it is to be a family.
• Birthday cake. He certainly brings a moment of solemnity and significance to the event. For such a holiday, take the trouble to order it in advance. It can look like a wedding one with the inscription "5 years" or wedding rings with the number 5. It would also be appropriate to ask the pastry chef to make it themed, that is, in the form of a tree or just decorative edible elements in this theme.

Five years of married life is a period when the family has proven its worth. The first passions have already subsided and the spouses fully felt the joys and concerns of life together. Remember to remind loved ones of how important each year of your marriage is to you. This can be done by arranging a romantic surprise or celebrating a full-fledged celebration.

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