How do you know if your wife is cheating?

An unfaithful wife is a headache for a husband. The whole family suffers from her betrayal. Divorce in this case is inevitable. What kind of man will tolerate infidelity? And if the representative of the stronger sex does not know for sure whether his girlfriend is faithful to him or not? How can you tell if your spouse is cheating on you? There are some tricks for this.

The husband begins to think that his wife is cheating on him, and there are certain reasons for this. In the first case, the man is a pathological jealous person. He comes up with a betrayal of his wife out of the blue. It seems to him that lovers are waiting for his woman at every corner. Nothing can be done about this, since this trait is the psychology of the behavior of some representatives of the stronger sex, which is laid throughout the entire time a person grows up.

In the second case, the reasons for suspicion also arise out of nowhere. This happens when the spouses have been married for a very long time and are of a very respectable age. The elderly spouse suspects his wife of constant infidelity. It would seem that this is an absurd story. But there is nothing comical here. It's just that the husband and wife have lived together all their lives, and now each of them is afraid of losing their "prosperous world."

Over the years, people get used to each other and become one. Therefore, they fear that one of them may leave. And along with it, the peace that is so necessary in old age will go away. Representatives of the stronger sex are more impulsive, and for this reason they begin to fuss and come up with an imaginary betrayal of their wife. Hence the various obsessions, which are successfully combined with speculation and fantasies.

In the third case, the husband's mistrust has a very real basis and can be understood.This happens when the wife begins to behave inappropriately. Behavior changes dramatically, and her family does not recognize her. It is possible that the woman has met a new love, and she is concerned about completely different problems than the problems of the family.

Therefore, you first need to identify the cause of the problem, and then solve it together. It is better to do this quickly and in a timely manner than to sort out the accumulated difficulties in the relationship later. In fact, there are many different prerequisites that provoke a family member to distrust. Let's consider them in more detail.

• In the case when a man himself often cheats on his woman, he becomes suspicious. It seems to him that everyone around him behaves the same way as he does: at every opportunity they cheat on their soul mate. Here you must first understand yourself, and only then sin on others.
• Another situation that may well cause suspicion of the wife's infidelity. The wife carefully monitors her appearance and is the standard of female beauty. How can one not be jealous? In this situation, this is simply impossible.
• Not far from the above reason has gone, and such when the husband has huge complexes. He always feels his inferiority in front of his wife, and therefore his condition becomes obsessive. Both he himself and his wife suffer from this.
• It also happens that the woman herself is to blame for the fact that her husband constantly suspects her of treason. Previously, there have already been cases when a spouse caught his chosen one for flirting with other representatives of the stronger sex. Now it seems to him that his wife, as before, continues to behave at ease with all men, and from this his guesses intensify.

• Unmarried girlfriends of the wife can also provoke mistrust on the part of the spouse. If a close friend often changes partners, then the husband begins to involuntarily think that his woman is capable of behaving in the same way. Marriage cannot stop those who are capable of betrayal.
• Emancipated married women are almost always in the zone of various conjectures on the part of the second half. The fact is that they often have to contact various people, among them there are business partners. Frequent hanging out with colleagues may seem like a suspicious fact. This will give rise to disagreements.
• Frequent separations when the husband is on business trips can raise some doubts. You never know what and with whom the wife is engaged in the absence of the spouse on the marriage bed? Until he is convinced that the other half is faithful to him, the jealous person will unknowingly speculate that his wife is deceiving him.
• Large age differences are fertile ground for the development of prejudice. An adult man, having married a young lady, will always feel some inferiority. It lies in the discrepancy between physiological data. A withering organism and a young organism differ significantly from each other.

After the above, it must be added that there can be many reasons, and men should not fall into panic. The behavior of both family members depends on a healthy climate of relationships in a family. You should always try to correct your thoughts and guesses for the positive. Let go of the situation and stop thinking about the possibility of cheating. And if you still persist and want to find out the truth about your significant other, then read on the following information.

It should be noted that women usually do not commit adultery if they do not have good reason for it. And this fact must be accepted in the first place. Nymphomaniacs and women of easy virtue are not counted here. In this case, we will focus on decent married ladies.

If a decent wife cheated, then she had her own reasons. Before making any accusations, analyze your behavior and relationships in your family. Maybe the root of evil lies in yourself?

In any case, the situation with the wife's infidelity does not need to be let "go by itself" and wait for the "thunder to break out." But to start acting, you must first identify the very fact of adultery, and then eradicate its causes and consequences. So, did you feel that something was amiss and suspected betrayal? How to recognize by the behavior of your wife that she is cheating on you? To do this, it is worth reading the following information.

• If you see that your spouse has begun to smarten up carefully before each appearance "in the people", you should be a little wary. It will not work to say with accuracy on this basis that your wife is unfaithful to you, because women are unpredictable people. Maybe, on the contrary, she is jealous of you and decided that with a change in appearance she will become more desirable. Therefore, you should not panic here, but you just need to be vigilant.
• More significant signs - this is when the wife has sharply limited versatile communication with you. She no longer tells you about what is happening at her work, how she feels in the team. The invisible connection that unites loved ones has disappeared between you, and you feel it well.
• You can also determine the infidelity of a spouse by looking. When you start asking leading questions, she will not look you directly in the eyes, but will hide them like a delinquent child.
• Take a closer look at how your wife behaves when she is late after work. There will be clear signs. The woman will fuss, pretend and try to get away from questioning.
• Indifference to everything that happens in your family is another sign of cheating. The woman has long made her choice, and everything that was connected with you is no longer of interest to her.
• Frequent mood swings indicate that your chosen one is tormented by conscience, or maybe she is thinking over a scheme for your early separation. Serious behavior and a puzzled appearance from your wife urge you to think about the problem.
• Has your woman become interested in beautiful underwear? So she has someone to show it to. Be sure to pay attention to this.
• The wife's eyes shine, and she looks happy out of the blue. Of course, this does not mean anything yet, but it raises considerable suspicion.

Consider the more obvious behavioral signs when you need to sound the alarm. As soon as the unfaithful soul mate starts dating her lover, she involuntarily compares the current husband and the new chosen one. Of course, while the candy-bouquet period is going on, the lover will be in a priority position. In the new favorite, a woman will admire all the details of his appearance: from the cologne to the figure and clothing.

At the same time, everything that is connected with her long-boring husband, that is, with you, begins to annoy her. Your spouse will comment on you with or without reason. Identify all flaws. What does this mean? This means that you annoy her. True, she is still trying to hide it carefully, hiding behind the fact that she simply induces an impeccable lifestyle and teaches you to order.

Now each member of modern society has his own phone number. Gadgets have become part of our lives, and now they are a reflection of personal space. Everything that happens around us is involuntarily reflected in the phone.

It also happens the other way around: the wife is more attentive to all family members, buys gifts for her husband. Flirts with or without reason. Becomes emphatically attentive and caring. In addition, the spouse begins to get involved in culinary delights: to cook deliciously and decorate all dishes, as if she was going to serve them at a banquet. And most importantly, she had never done this before. This suggests that the wife is trying to make amends for you.

Also, a woman becomes demanding of herself and of all household members. This happens against the background of the fact that the fairer sex feels very much needed and loved by someone. And close people - her husband and children - slightly annoy her with the fact that, as it seems to her, she is not appreciated.

For the same reason, the fairer sex becomes self-confident. Expresses bold thoughts and is not afraid to humiliate and offend everyone. Demonstrates his superiority, as if in adolescence.

Physiological signs can also tell a lot about your wife having a loved one. The fact is that at the moment of strong attraction, a woman's hormonal background changes slightly, so her characteristic features are transformed, become defiant. The once modest lady turns into a vulgar person before our eyes. She draws attention to herself with loud phrases and special movements.

And it doesn't matter that at the moment there is no person nearby who inspires her so much. It's just that the fairer sex always feels a connection with him, and it seems to her that he is invisibly watching his lady of the heart. Therefore, she creates a "theatrical performance".

It is difficult to identify cheating in physiology, but some characteristic features will tell in which direction to move. For example, by the reddish spots walking along the body of a spouse, you can determine whether she has recently had a relationship with another man or not.

And another clear sign is your sex life. If you began to notice a strong cooling in this regard, then you should deeply think about the question of your spouse's fidelity. On the side, she has a stormy and vibrant life, and she has neither the strength nor the time for a family existence. It is possible that she will soon completely abandon intimacy with you and will only blame you for this.

And yet, it must be added: if a woman is smart and inventive, then she will never give clear signs that speak of her betrayal. If you do not notice anything, then you do not need to notice anything and specifically look for suspicious signs in behavior. You are happy - and this is the main thing, and if your wife decides to leave you, she will do it anyway.

Some of the men will decide that the wife's infidelity is not a reason for divorce. This is his right, and it is not subject to condemnation. In this case, it is necessary to make sure that the meetings between the wife and her lover stop once and for all. For this, such techniques as talking frankly, identifying diverse family problems, and so on are suitable. Just do not use force under any circumstances. Otherwise, you will not achieve what you wanted, but only harm yourself. Violence will lead to the inevitable breakdown of the family.

Some will want to leave their unfaithful wife and demand a divorce - this is a wise decision. due to the fact that in marriage, first of all, it is necessary to trust each other. And if one of the partners has shown his dishonesty, then such a relationship should be terminated.

But in order to make certain decisions, you need to know for sure: there was treason or not.So, if you yourself identified the signs of treason, then now you need to move on to the next stage: to catch the unfaithful wife. To do this, you need some tips.

• To be sure that your wife has cheated on you, try to observe her behavior for a while. This will take a little - just a week, during which you must be extremely careful not to lose sight of even the smallest details. You need to do this in order to once again make sure that your suspicions are correct.
• Take your spouse's phone discreetly. There will definitely be information that can confirm the act of infidelity. The slightest clue will give rise to further verification.
• If a wife “closed” her social media page with a password, then this once again suggests that she has something to hide. Try to hack your account using modern technologies.

• You can make sure that your wife is cheating by talking quietly in private. Ask direct questions about your wife's faithfulness. Like no one else, you know the most subtle traits of her character and therefore immediately determine whether her spouse is lying to you or not.
• You can recognize a wife's treachery with the help of simple surveillance. You can do it yourself, or you can hire a specialist. He will present you with evidence in the form of photographs and give you an accurate report in all the details.
• Do you have any suspicions that your wife is cheating on you in your bed at home while you are on a business trip? Then install a hidden camera in some hidden corner. As soon as you see the recordings from the electronic media, everything will immediately become clear to you. In addition, such evidence may be needed if you need to provide evidence of treason in court.
• Is your wife a very busy person and is used to communicating with business partners? Do you suspect one of them that he is your wife's lover? Then, with the help of a specialist, open the woman's business correspondence. There you will find what you were looking for. If the fears were in vain, you will not lose anything, but only gain peace of mind.
• A DNA test can also help you find out the truth about your wife. True, this is a very expensive event, but if you are eager to prove your wife's guilt, then go for it. To do this, you need to contact the laboratory, where experienced staff will tell you how and what to do in order to collect the biomaterial.
• Neighbors and acquaintances can also tell you that they saw your wife in the company of an unknown man. Only here it is necessary to take into account the fact that people do not particularly make contact when it comes to family secrets. Proceed with caution in this case. Do not immediately lay out the subject of your discussion to the interlocutor, but act wisely. It will be enough to start the conversation with a neutral topic, and then quietly move on to the questions that interest you. Just ask them in a relaxed manner and without pressure. It is possible that your friend will not tell you anything directly, but he will definitely hint at the information that he keeps “to himself” for a long time.

• Offer your wife a vacation together. If she has a permanent partner, then your call will not interest her. Subsequent irritation and discontent will indicate that your spouse is clearly not keen on your pastime together. And separation from her lover is an unacceptable test for her.
• And one more important point.If you have small children in your family, then your wife's betrayal can be revealed with the help of "baby talk". The woman is sure that the child does not understand anything in the relationship of adults. Therefore, she can allow options for meetings where your joint child will be present. For example, in situations like this, when a new partner gives your unfaithful wife a lift home after she took her child out of kindergarten. During the trip, there is a small child in the car. He is interested in knowing everything, and he observes from the outside what is happening.

When the fact of infidelity is proven, the man falls into some stupor or is severely depressed. This happens because the psychology of men is significantly different from the psychology of women.

• The husband takes his wife's unfaithfulness as a personal and powerful insult. All this happens to him due to the fact that the representatives of the stronger sex have a pronounced hunter instinct. Having lost his "prey", the jealous person falls into a rage because the stronger opponent was able to take away the most precious thing.
• He feels the pain of loss. That which was dear and that which he loved was trampled and reviled. From such experiences, the deceived husband feels an inferiority complex. And for men, this is a very strong test of strength.
• The representative of the stronger sex is not always able to make a specific decision due to the fact that in his soul two strong feelings begin to fight among themselves: hatred and love for a woman who has betrayed.

Of course, in such cases, turning to a psychologist is the most correct way out of the situation. But what to do when there is neither the desire nor the strength to seek help from a stranger? The answer is obvious: read the following tips.

To determine and concretize your further actions, you must first answer the question: are you ready to divorce your soulmate after her betrayal?

If you want to get a divorce, then do it immediately. If you start to play for time, you will suffer even more. This problem will drag you into the abyss of your moods, and it will not be easy to get out of there.

If you decide to stay in the family and forgive your wife, then you need to undergo a self-rehabilitation course according to the following scheme.

• Stop thinking that your wife has cheated on you. Cross this information out of your mind. You can't do anything by half. If you decide to continue the relationship, then do it.
• You are a man and if you have made a decision to forgive, then goodbye. You must do this sincerely and not leave an insult even in the most secret corner of your consciousness.
• Do not think about what your friends and mutual acquaintances will say. Believe me, they, by and large, do not care about your pain. Some of them, discussing the situation with cheating, are just having fun. They love that your family is having such difficulties. Some people are genuinely happy when they learn about other people's failures. Therefore, try not to pay attention to poorly hidden judgmental glances and barbs. Avoid negativity and assault. There is nothing worse in life than death, and gossip will end sooner or later. Just delete such "well-wishers" from your life and you will see that the problem will not bother you anymore.
• Do not involve children in this conflict situation. You and your wife will reconcile, and the new generation may receive psychological trauma for the rest of their lives and become angry with you.

To improve family relationships, you don't just need to forgive your wife. Keep in mind that your spouse is feeling guilty and suffering.Therefore, she is nervous and can make mistakes that lead to scandals. Always remember that you are a man and must act more consciously. You can defuse the situation in the family during the recovery period with the help of such tips.

• The overflowing memories of his wife's infidelity significantly spoil the mood. Go fishing to improve your condition. There you will be distracted and collect your thoughts. Camping will help you to take all your willpower into a fist, and you will feel a surge of strength.
• Play sports. It will distract you from negative thoughts and emotions, and it will raise your self-esteem.
• If you hear behind your back accusations from friends and former classmates that you are a weakling, then prove the opposite. Always and everywhere walk with your wife, taking her carefully by the hand. Gossip will subside, and envious people will choke with anger.
• Arrange holiday get-togethers with close relatives. They will always support you morally and will not condemn you.
• Outdoor trips are a great way to improve the health of your family. Get ready for a hike together. Let all family members participate in the collection of bags, equipment and provisions. Shared activities bring people together.
• Take care of the renovation of the apartment. This work will take a lot of your time and completely distract from the negativity. Therefore, you will not have time for sad thoughts.
• Invite your wife to start hoarding. Having collected the required amount, you will spend it on the purchase of the necessary thing. In the meantime, you will save money, you will be busy with a common cause, which means that your relationship will begin to recover.